When we were in our teens, why did our heart race when a cute person from the opposite sex talk to us?

After we’re grown up and married, our heart don’t race anymore when talking to a cute person of the opposite sex but only race when we are furiously upset. Why?

As we get older, our heart is clouded by our mind. So when we see a cute person, our mind starts taking over with thoughts like:

1) Is he gay?
2) Is he a womanizer?
3) Is he a bum/unemployed?
4) Is he an alcoholic?
5) Is he already married and looking only to have an affair?
6) Even if the answers are NO to all the above, our mind will still think "why would a perfect guy like that be interested in me?".
7) Or our mind would come up with a thousand reasons why we won't be compatible.

It's too difficult for older people to enjoy the feelings as they are without thinking about consequences/end results!

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ga10 wrote:As we get older, our heart is clouded by our mind.  So when we see a cute person, our mind starts taking over with thoughts like:

1) Is he gay?
2) Is he a womanizer?
3) Is he a bum/unemployed?
4) Is he an alcoholic?
5) Is he already married and looking only to have an affair?
6) Even if the answers are NO to all the above, our mind will still think "why would a perfect guy like that be interested in me?".
7) Or our mind would come up with a thousand reasons why we won't be compatible.  

It's too difficult for older people to enjoy the feelings as they are without thinking about consequences/end results!

Thanks for sharing sis ga.

I don’t have time to think or contemplate anything….just….holding on to my purse tightly (even though there’s no money in it) getting ready to run.

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Or tim luc’ gia beo’ qua’ dap het noi

Regardless how chubby the hearts are, It race when we’re angry. Vi ly do do’, nguoi ta noi gian qua mat khon….vo binh vien with an aneurysm ton tien nen lam sao khon noi day.

Tai hoi tre? tim con tot de bi nhay cam? Va dap manh .lol

Ai sao chứ tui thấy gái đẹp là tim đập thình thịch liền.

Tuy không có gì. Nhưng khi nhìn người đẹp hay trò chuyện mà không run động thì như xong.

Galang

Simple answer

When we were younger, we rarely or never had sex on a regular basis. Therefore, our deep secret lust kicks in as we yearn for a real good sex when we met a very cute gal/guy.

And now we're older and married, we practically have sex everyday. Therefore, our sex drive is not constantly waiting to explode, and with which, we do not have that throbbing heart beat when we saw a cute gal/guy.

With that being said, it doesn't mean that we don't want sum'in new or test drive new rides ...we're just suppressing our yearning for lust, but we're still a pack of wild beasts ready to munch that nice piece of meat ...

When we were younger we get ẽxcited over the smallest things